Category: Relationships

Eventually I noticed that the groups that had poly+mono people posting in them are full of monogamous people complaining that they feel like they have to “do all the work” when it comes to the relationship.

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Everyone knew this was coming, and I mean EVERYONE. Any time I would talk about my views on the pointlessness of marriage, the response was always “Some woman will come along and break your rules.”

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For most of my life, I have worked on me. I have been making quiet internal efforts to analyze who I am, what I want, and who I should spend my time with. Because of this I now have a superpower.

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In order to keep sane in a long-term live-in relationship, each person is going to need space. This doesn’t have to negatively affect intimacy, as long as you do it right.

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Some people hate arguments, but they are going to happen in any long-term relationship. Get good at them or get ready to be unhappy. I’ve written my handy guide to arguing here and I hope it helps.

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There are hundreds of things that women look for in a man. Each woman may prioritize them differently, but given enough time they could write an Encyclopedia Britannica of things that they want in a man. Quite frankly, those things just aren’t who we are.

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