Corry Frydlewicz smiling at Christie Park in Emeryville

So You’re Interviewing Corry

I’ve been pleasantly surprised by how many hiring processes include questions about accommodations for interviews recently. This page is intended to be a catch-all for those questions.

Authenticity

Being my full self at work makes me more productive and valuable to my employer, and I don’t believe putting on a false mask during the interview process leads me to organizations where I’ll thrive. So here’s a heads up about what that means in an interview:

I’m non-binary and use they/them pronouns. I may arrive wearing clothing, makeup, jewelry, facial hair, etc. from across the gender spectrum.

I’m on the autistic spectrum. I may fidget as we speak. I will likely wear comfortable clothing over uncomfortable formal wear because of sensory sensitivity. My eye contact differs day to day. I may ask follow-up questions about what you mean by something that seems obvious.

I speak directly and honestly. I’m transparent about what I know and don’t know. No false confidence. I take promises seriously. I don’t hide relevant information or engage in bad faith negotiations. I’m looking for mutually beneficial partnerships, not marks to exploit.

I welcome kind questions about any of it and advocate for diverse humanity in all aspects of my life, including work.

Ambushes

Before a meeting, please specify expectations. If I’m expecting a 1-on-1 and a panel is there when I arrive, that can have an adverse affect on my performance (and reveal that the company’s culture isn’t inclusive for people like me).

If there’s a skill test, please let me know ahead of time what’s being tested and the method. The more detail the better. In real work, I take time for research and preparation. I ask stakeholders “why?” questions. Tools like Google and Stack Overflow are essential, and I consult with colleagues. I pull up previous projects and copy portions of them. Hopefully the testing done during interviews isn’t completely detached from the reality of the position.

I also don’t usually have people I just met watching the entire time, so I appreciate some understanding about nervousness in that strange circumstance.

Unconscious Bias

“They don’t have the look of a manager” takes on different meanings for each of us. Some folks interviewing with me will need to press through their biases, and I assure you it’ll be well worth it.

Thanks for reading this and giving me a shot. 😊