Corry’s Dating Profile
Let’s start with photos! My Google Photos Album of Photos I Feel Cute In has more photos and is more up-to-date than the gallery below.
Me
🏕️ I’m enjoying myself as long as I can, while attempting to leave the world slightly better than I found it.
🥰 I try to focus on my local community rather than national political intrigue.
🎒 My primary long term goal is travel. I aim to see as much of the planet as I can without carrying colonizer bullshit with me.
I wrote a vulnerable blog post about how I date if you’re interested.
Obviously, I’m pretty transparent. Feel free to connect with me on any social media platform you find me on. Let me know if your interests are more than platonic friendship because I can be pretty dense about knowing if someone is flirting with me. I promise to do the same and ask before going for a kiss. 😇
I answer all kind questions honestly and in good faith, so don’t be shy. ☺️
Quick Stats
| Age | 41 |
| Height & Weight | 5’8″ 210-ish lbs. |
| Pronouns | she/they |
| Politics | Antifascist, Abolitionist, Socialist, Incrementalist, Nonviolent |
| Religion | 100% Agnostic — but within that: • 60% Buddhist • 20% Episcopalian • 20% Jewish (Reconstructionist) |
| Hobbies | Writing, Gaming, Travel, Eating, Cooking, Hiking, Swimming, Art of all kinds at fair-to-low quality |
| Education | BA in Game Design ⇐ Various Art/Tech Majors at State U ⇐ Public School |
| Career | Tech Management ⇐ Web Dev ⇐ Graphic Design ⇐ Game Dev ⇐ Service/Retail |
| Race | White |
| Ancestry | USA ⇐ Caribbean Islands, Canada, Nicaragua ⇐ Irish/Scottish, Polish ⇐ Ashkenazi Jew ⇐ Northern Africa |
| Astrology | Cancer |
| Substances / Habits | Smoking Never Alcohol 0-3 weekly Medical Marijuana (Edibles) 2-5 weekly Ketamine (Therapeutic) 1-3 monthly Psilocybin (Mushrooms) 0-2 annually Gambling / Pay-to-Win Gaming Never |
Love Languages (Ranked)
Some people think these are dumb, but I find them helpful.
| How I Love | How I Like to Be Loved |
|---|---|
| 1. Acts of Service 2. Physical Touch 3. Words of Affirmation 4. Quality Time* 5. Gifting | 1. Words of Affirmation 2. Physical Touch 3. Acts of Service 4. Quality Time* 5. Gifting |
* For me, quality time includes parallel play. We don’t have to be participating in the same activities, but it’s nice to just be in each others’ presence.
Gender
I am non-binary and transfemme. My pronouns are she/they, and I appreciate ungendered or femme descriptors whenever possible (in languages that require binary gender, I prefer feminine). I’m AMAB, I’ve been on HRT since 2023 and my body mods haven’t included bottom surgery.
My Tastes
I love weird movies that make me think and linger on my mind long after the credits. I like casual video games that’re fun on their own merit within the first hour but can also keep me interested for where it’s going. I love music that either fits my mood or tells an interesting story. I read lots of sci-fi but also non-fiction when I need grounding. I love modern art of all kinds and honestly don’t care much about the ancient classics anymore. I love animals.
Ask me about my favorite museums and zoos. Ask about my local movie club. Try to beat my scores in Slay The Spire or Dance Dance Revolution. Challenge me to learn your favorites.
My Brain
I’m neurodivergent and I get along best with others who understand my “issues”:
- 🧠 AuDHD (low support needs) — ADHD vs. Autism
- 🌦️ Seasonal Affective Depression (during cold seasons)
- 🙋 Gender Dysphoria (improving since 2023)
All are actively managed in regular therapy.
Other Info
- 🐕 I have a dog. She’s my buddy and I like taking her wherever she’s welcome. She’s allowed on my furniture and sleeps in my bed with me.
- 💉 I’m always fully vaccinated and boosted.
- ⚕️ I have no STIs. Regular screenings. Proof available upon request.
- 🚗 I don’t own a car. I don’t want one. I walk, bike, rideshare, and use public transit and get around just fine. It’s cool with me if you have one, of course.
- 🚭 I don’t smoke and prefer not to be around it. (cigar and pot smoke are okay in small doses)
What I’m Looking For
I want to learn and understand cool people. I have a ravenous curiosity about humans I click with. I want long talks about movies, books, and shitty reality shows while we take an edible and go on a hike. I want to go to events I’ve never been to together, expose myself to new things, and introduce others to the stuff I love. I want to commiserate about the world, but not too much.
I want to meet others who explore and experiment with their identity. I’m okay with being the first person like me a new person dates, as long as they’re kind and patient.
I want to feel chosen and affirmed in my attractiveness as a unique individual. I want deep connection — not just a sexual fantasy to try out. I move slowly in all but rare special connections because I need to really like someone before I can fully enjoy being physical with them. Once we get there, I’m just as curious and engaged in learning about them physically as I was about their personality.
Relationship Styles
I practice CNM/ENM as solo poly. I meet most of my own needs. My love is infinite but my time and resources are not. I’m usually sexually active with only one or two people at a time and safety is important to me, so I communicate changes readily.
What I’m open to right now:
- A slow-moving relationship where we see each other regularly and aren’t looking to escalate things for a while, but are open to the possibility
- A casual relationship where we spend time together sporadically but don’t have set expectations
- Aromantic and/or Asexual relationships are always welcome.
- Long distance is fine too, if we have communication chemistry.
- Friendships are always welcome.
- I prefer kitchen table, but I’m fine with parallel too.
I have one anchor partner who I’ve been with since 2021 (poly the entire time).
Other Wants
I tend to date within a few years of my age, but can be open minded with people over at least 30.
I want courageous relationships. I’m out about everything in my life. I am openly trans, queer, and poly. I can be discreet about personal details and I’m conscious of others’ privacy, but I will not be dragged back into a closet by anyone, even if the gestapo kicks down my door.
Sexual Preferences
I can’t believe you’re talking about this so openly!
Yea, well you’re the one reading it, weirdo. 😏 This is the final section on this page, so you can just stop here if you’re not interested.
I view sex as play, and I view play as one of the most important things we do in life. I want it to be relaxed while still intense. I want presence in the moment where the outside world can wait.
Quick Stats
| Sexual Orientation | Demisexual, Polysexual, Panromantic |
| Sexual Orientation Gender Specifics | Trans folks: 💖 Front of the line! Cis women: 💖 Anything’s possible Cis men: 💖 Non-sexual relationships only Everyone else: 💖 Anything’s possible |
| Role | Switch ~50:50 (Service Dom/Sub), Vers ~75:25 (Top | Bottom) |
Interests
My interests evolve over time and I’m open to trying almost anything. That said, here are some things I’ve been into for a while and are probably here to stay:
- Nurturing/Service
- Primal (Predator and Prey)
- Toys
- Rope (novice, but interested)
- Role play
- Exhibitionism (consensual — not public)
Hard Limits
Again, I’m open to giving things a chance, but these are usually not going to do anything for me:
- Humiliation / Degradation
- Injury (anything beyond a bruise)
- Race Play
- Age Play
- Master / Slave
- Anything 24/7
- 🩸 Blood, 💩 Skeet, 🤮 Emetophilia
Anything I didn’t mention is probably negotiable. 😈