For every person that tells me some version of “You’re weird.” I get another who says “So? Everyone’s like that!”
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Since I came out around this time last year, I’ve been asked some interesting questions.
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I’ve hesitated to write about my time in Wisconsin. I don’t want to make the nice people who live there feel bad. Some of them made me feel welcome and comfortable.
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An interesting thing I’ve found true during my relationship counseling and since: As a coder, I began thinking of boundaries this way instead of as rigid laws of nature that are impossible to break without the entire system being destroyed. Since then, when I’ve communicated my boundaries to someone, I’ve always done what I consider […]
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My ballot for the June 7, 2022 election from Alameda County California. Short explanations of my reasoning for each vote. Enjoy and feel free to join the discussion.
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When I was in college, my art school friend with benefits (hetero cis woman) knew, like many people did, that I wasn’t exactly the epitome of cishetero-ness. She knew I carried myself differently, had lots of LGBTQIA+ friends, and hung out at gay clubs sometimes. She had Yaoi fantasies and occasionally pushed me to experiment […]
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Iyanna demands Jarrette throws away anything he owns that he received from an ex.
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I’ve spent most of my adult life contemplating the meaning of love and I needed to share lots of updates.
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Let’s talk about our relationship.
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In early 2020 I answered the first casting call I’ve done since college, and I’ve had to keep it a secret until now.
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