I’ve hesitated to write about my time in Wisconsin. I don’t want to make the nice people who live there feel bad. Some of them made me feel welcome and comfortable.
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These posts are quicker and less carefully edited than my full blog posts.
An interesting thing I’ve found true during my relationship counseling and since: As a coder, I began thinking of boundaries this way instead of as rigid laws of nature that are impossible to break without the entire system being destroyed. Since then, when I’ve communicated my boundaries to someone, I’ve always done what I consider […]
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When I was in college, my art school friend with benefits (hetero cis woman) knew, like many people did, that I wasn’t exactly the epitome of cishetero-ness. She knew I carried myself differently, had lots of LGBTQIA+ friends, and hung out at gay clubs sometimes. She had Yaoi fantasies and occasionally pushed me to experiment […]
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Iyanna demands Jarrette throws away anything he owns that he received from an ex.
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Let’s talk about our relationship.
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I gave out some advice in a trans/non-binary group I’m in and I think it might be relevant to others.
Read it Now!Eventually I noticed that the groups that had poly+mono people posting in them are full of monogamous people complaining that they feel like they have to “do all the work” when it comes to the relationship.
Read it Now!When I spend more than a few minutes thinking about and writing something on a social media platform I don’t own, I want to take that out of the hands of datamongers and put it on my own platform.
Read it Now!I’ve been thinking about this a lot recently, especially when I see baby animals and children.
Read it Now!Everyone complaining about why we aren’t raiding the Oregon Wildlife Sanctuary: Don’t feed the trolls.
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