I hold no reverence for your idols. I declare no allegiance to your priests. I do not honor the sanctity of your temples. I am not a shield for excusing the violence of men, nor a convenient scapegoat to butcher in their stead. I am neither an excuse to prop up anti-feminist sentiment, nor am […]
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For the dozens of friends who’ve said “It’s great that you’re free of these apps. I need to delete mine too, but…” Let’s find our way past those obstacles.
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Bethany and I are getting married! 🎉
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For the last few months, I’ve been worrying about and preparing for the U.S. implementing Project 2025.
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Bethany and I were feeling really down last November (for some reason) and we felt desperately in need of something to look forward to. So for her birthday weekend, we tried to make it happen within our means. I started this draft shortly after we got home, and have since been unable to finish it. […]
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My first year on hormone replacement therapy (HRT) has been full of surprises coming both from within and from my environment.
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I removed dozens of people from my social media accounts this week. Unlike many marginalized people who are doing this out of fear, I’ve come to understand it as retracting a charitable hand. I provided you with a service. An easy-to-consume window into my experience of queerness, creativity, and humanity. An opportunity for you to […]
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I feel myself pulling out of a protracted spiral. These are some unrelated, but also totally related, stories and thoughts.
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Throughout the last year I’ve regularly updated friends and family about my job search and resulting budgeting adjustments.
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I changed my Final Fantasy XIV character’s gender this week and it’s weirdly affirming.
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