I’ve written several articles to you, previously anonymized to blunt any hurt they may cause, but I doubt you’ve read them.
Categories: Life
Understanding ourselves and others is limited by our frame of reference, which is mostly involuntary and changes throughout our lifetime. I want to expand on a concept I wrote about 15 years ago.
I hold no reverence for your idols. I declare no allegiance to your priests. I do not honor the sanctity of your temples. I am not a shield for excusing the violence of men, nor a convenient scapegoat to butcher in their stead. I am neither an excuse to prop up anti-feminist sentiment, nor am […]
Categories: Life
For the dozens of friends who’ve said “It’s great that you’re free of these apps. I need to delete mine too, but…” Let’s find our way past those obstacles.
For the last few months, I’ve been worrying about and preparing for the U.S. implementing Project 2025.
Bethany and I were feeling really down last November (for some reason) and we felt desperately in need of something to look forward to. So for her birthday weekend, we tried to make it happen within our means. I started this draft shortly after we got home, and have since been unable to finish it. […]
All kinds of fictional and real people who I look up to for fashion sense. I also have a board for Fashion Inspiration.
Categories: Life
My first year on hormone replacement therapy (HRT) has been full of surprises coming both from within and from my environment.
I removed dozens of people from my social media accounts this week. Unlike many marginalized people who are doing this out of fear, I’ve come to understand it as retracting a charitable hand. I provided you with a service. An easy-to-consume window into my experience of queerness, creativity, and humanity. An opportunity for you to […]