Category: Relationships

This started as a fun post about how I’m enjoying the way I’ve been dating lately, but when I dig into why it’s so comfortable now it uncovers some unpleasant history.

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An interesting thing I’ve found true during my relationship counseling and since: As a coder, I began thinking of boundaries this way instead of as rigid laws of nature that are impossible to break without the entire system being destroyed. Since then, when I’ve communicated my boundaries to someone, I’ve always done what I consider […]

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