Dysmorphia has affected me since puberty. It’s been difficult to meld my identity with the realities of my physical body.
Gender is a social construct that expresses or helps us understand the ways we want to be treated by others. One’s gender is different from their sex.
The following posts mention gender.
Dysmorphia has affected me since puberty. It’s been difficult to meld my identity with the realities of my physical body.
When I have a down-to-earth discussion about homophobia with someone I respect, it’s hard for them to identify why they hate gay people.
What does it mean to be manly in 2014? How do I measure up? What’s the rationale behind stuff we call “manly” or masculine?
I support every human being’s right to be who they want to be. If I was born a girl but still felt like a guy, I’d like to think I could make that transition without others treating me like a freak, or acting like I was doing something immoral.
For most of my life, I have worked on me. I have been making quiet internal efforts to analyze who I am, what I want, and who I should spend my time with. Because of this I now have a superpower.
There are hundreds of things that women look for in a man. Each woman may prioritize them differently, but given enough time they could write an Encyclopedia Britannica of things that they want in a man. Quite frankly, those things just aren’t who we are.