An interesting thing I’ve found true during my relationship counseling and since: As a coder, I began thinking of boundaries this way instead of as rigid laws of nature that are impossible to break without the entire system being destroyed. Since then, when I’ve communicated my boundaries to someone, I’ve always done what I consider […]
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Iyanna demands Jarrette throws away anything he owns that he received from an ex.
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I’ve spent most of my adult life contemplating the meaning of love and I needed to share lots of updates.
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Let’s talk about our relationship.
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Eventually I noticed that the groups that had poly+mono people posting in them are full of monogamous people complaining that they feel like they have to “do all the work” when it comes to the relationship.
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For the first 8 years of my relationship with Kati, I was stubbornly anti-marriage. We spent years working on our relationship, and it hasn’t gone to waste.
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What does it mean to be manly in 2014? As a verified male, I’m going to give my point of view about what I consider manly, and how I measure up.
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Everyone keeps asking me, but I don’t know what to tell them. Being a husband isn’t really any different than being a boyfriend. Why do others think it is?
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Everyone knew this was coming, and I mean EVERYONE. Any time I would talk about my views on the pointlessness of marriage, the response was always “Some woman will come along and break your rules.”
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For most of my life, I have worked on me. I have been making quiet internal efforts to analyze who I am, what I want, and who I should spend my time with. Because of this I now have a superpower.
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