What does it mean to be manly in 2014? How do I measure up? What’s the rationale behind stuff we call “manly” or masculine?
Everyone keeps asking me, but I don’t know what to tell them. Being a husband isn’t really any different than being a boyfriend. Why do others think it is?
Whenever I talk about my views on marriage, the response was usually “You’ll see. Some woman will come along and break your rules.”
For most of my life, I have worked on me. I have been making quiet internal efforts to analyze who I am, what I want, and who I should spend my time with. Because of this I now have a superpower.
In order to keep sane in a long-term live-in relationship, each person is going to need space. This doesn’t have to negatively affect intimacy, as long as you do it right.
Some people hate arguments, but they’re going to happen in any long-term relationship. We may as well learn to do them well.
There are hundreds of things that women look for in a man. Each woman may prioritize them differently, but given enough time they could write an Encyclopedia Britannica of things that they want in a man. Quite frankly, those things just aren’t who we are.
Some sociology and relationship experts (whatever those are) assert that no one will ever experience the passion and excitement of their first relationship again, and that they should completely forget their first relationships. As much as this feels like common sense to me, I feel resistant to the notion.
Being unemployed has its way of giving you tons of time to search your thoughts. Stagnation is slow death, so I begin to ponder my future.
