Coming out as poly to an existing monogamous partner is rough. Is there a way to do it without breaking up?
An aspiring unicorn asks an established polyamorous community why they feel stigmatized when they talk about their desires.
How does a masculine-presenting person assure someone new that they’re a good guy?
Feeling let down, lonely, and disappointed is natural, but if we start to see a pattern we may be laying down those tracks ourselves.
Boundaries aren’t rigid unbreakable laws. They’re guidelines for failing gracefully.
Iyanna demands Jarrette throws away anything he owns that he received from an ex.
Categories: Relationships
I’ve spent most of my adult life contemplating the meaning of love and I needed to share lots of updates.
The groups with poly+mono people are full of monogamous people who feel like they have to “do all the work” in the relationship.
For the first 8 years of my relationship with Kati, I was stubbornly anti-marriage. We spent years working on our relationship, and it hasn’t gone to waste.