Coming out as poly to an existing monogamous partner is rough. Is there a way to do it without breaking up?
Quick bite-sized posts for thoughts bigger than tweets and shorter than full articles. Occasionally includes unfinished work.
Coming out as poly to an existing monogamous partner is rough. Is there a way to do it without breaking up?
An aspiring unicorn asks an established polyamorous community why they feel stigmatized when they talk about their desires.
How does a masculine-presenting person assure someone new that they’re a good guy?
Feeling let down, lonely, and disappointed is natural, but if we start to see a pattern we may be laying down those tracks ourselves.
The stuff men share and ask for support with in these groups is often unexpectedly vulnerable, heartbreaking, and emotional.
Interview clothes have always been a weird thing to figure out for me. Even more so after starting gender transition.
Bethany and I visited our families in Little Rock and New Jersey and had lots of fun! (My travel blogs are here instead of social media now)
I realized underneath all the frustration, low energy, brain fog, insomnia, and general bad mood… is an intense pain flare.
For every person that tells me some version of “You’re weird.” I get another who says “So? Everyone’s like that!”